Making An Impact…That Lasts!

When I was a young child, my mom was very intentional about spending time with me individually. She would often take my sister and me on outings, but every now and then, we got the special opportunity to spend time together—just the two of us.

During one of those times, Mom and I went back-to-school shopping—an outing that was always one of my favorites. While my mom and dad worked extremely hard to provide for my siblings and me, we were not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination.

On this particular trip, I vividly remember our experience at Old Navy. I picked out two coats—one for everyday wear, which I needed, and a pea coat I had always wanted. I could picture wearing it to church and special occasions where a regular coat just wouldn’t do the trick.

Knowing it would be tough to afford both, Mom offered to buy them anyway. At first, I agreed. But as we got to the checkout counter, I could see the look on her face as she tallied up our expenses. Realizing I only needed one coat, I told her I was okay with just getting the one for everyday use.

Of course, being the wonderful mother she is, she insisted she would make it work. But I assured her I was fine and turned to take the pea coat back to the racks.

As I walked away, a sweet voice called out:

“Wait! Ma’am, I’d like to buy your daughter the second coat. I was listening and watching how respectful she was to you, and I’d like to get it for her.”

It was the lady standing in line behind us. I will never forget that moment. I felt seen, loved, and cared for—without even asking. And honestly, it wasn’t the money that impacted me the most—it was her words and the fact that she was watching and took note.

It’s Not About Fame or Perfection

I’m sure we can all think of people in our lives who have made a lasting impact on us—even shaping who we’ve become today. If I asked you to close your eyes and picture the most influential person in your life, chances are, it wouldn’t be a celebrity, a political figure, or even a well-known preacher. Most often, it’s ordinary people whose acts of kindness and consistent care leave the deepest mark.

“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” —2 Corinthians 12:9

For a long time, I thought you needed to be well-known and nearly perfect to make an impact. But as I’ve dug deeper into my calling, I’ve realized the opposite is true.

We don’t make the biggest difference when we are widely known—we do when we know others well.

God’s Word reminds us: His power rests on us in our weakness. We are flawed, imperfect people who need Jesus—and because of that, we can relate to others more deeply and walk in our purpose, even without a platform.

3 Practical Ways to Make a Lasting Impact

Here are three ways I’ve learned to impact others in meaningful, everyday ways:

1. Stay Attentive to Others’ Needs and Serve Them

Some of the most impactful moments in my life came when someone noticed a need I never voiced. They cared enough to see me.

A biblical example of this is Mordecai from the book of Esther. He wasn’t a king, prophet, or warrior—just a faithful cousin raising Esther. But his influence saved a king, inspired a queen, and preserved a nation.

In Esther 4:13–14, he tells Esther:

“Who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”

Mordecai’s quiet loyalty and attentiveness shaped destiny.

2. Follow the Leading of the Holy Ghost

You don’t have to serve others in your own strength. Romans 8:14 says,

“For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.”

When you feel a nudge to check on someone or lend a hand—listen. The Holy Ghost guides us into purposeful impact.

3. Bear the Fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22–23 reminds us that love, joy, peace, patience, and kindness are powerful agents of impact.

Sometimes kindness looks like offering gentleness when someone doesn’t deserve it. Forgiving others when it’s hard reflects Jesus—who forgave us while we were still sinners. That kind of impact lasts.

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Make a Difference

God calls us to impact the world around us—not by being famous, but by being faithful. You have opportunities every day to notice someone, serve someone, and follow the Spirit’s lead.

Let the fruit of the Spirit flow through you. You can make a difference—and it might just change someone’s life forever.

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About the Author: Bethany Miller

Bethany Miller is a gifted writer, devoted educator, and passionate minister’s wife who serves her community with excellence and heart. She was recently honored in the Grenada Star (June 18, 2025 edition) for graduating from the Mississippi Community College Leadership Academy (MCCLA), a prestigious program dedicated to equipping college professionals for elevated leadership roles. As the Quality Enhancement Plan Coordinator at Holmes Community College—Grenada Campus—Bethany plays a key role in shaping academic growth and student success.

Beyond her professional achievements, Bethany is a beloved member of the Pentecostals of Grenada where she faithfully serves alongside her husband, Rev. Trae Miller. Together, they minister through music, teaching, and the arts. Bethany is an anointed Sunday school teacher, gifted singer, and sign language worship artist. Her creativity and compassion shine brightly in all she does.

Bethany and Trae are the proud parents of two beautiful daughters, Remi and London. Whether leading students, pouring into the next generation at church, or writing words that stir the soul, Bethany Miller lives to make an eternal impact.