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Preparing for Christmas & The Four Christmas Challenges
- David McCool
- 7 days ago
- 5 min read
Christmas is a time that can bring stress and anxiety. I want you to know that we bring most of
the stress and anxiety on ourselves. Don’t stop reading because that stung a little bit. I know it
did because it does for me.
For my eyes have seen your salvation …that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples, (Luke 2:30-31 ESV)
Take just a few moments and think about the things that stress you out about Christmas. Do you
have that list? It might look something like this:
I’m sure you have some specific things you are adding to this list.
I want to try to help you with some of this. When we identify what makes this season stressful
and full of anxiety, we can work to eliminate some of that pressure. So if you haven’t already,
make the list of what’s bringing you stress. Let me give you four areas that we can reset to
reduce stress and anxiety.
Mentally — Reset Your Expectations
Christmas does not have to be perfect. Have you read the Christmas story? It was anything but
perfect. An unexpected trip out of town. Joseph didn’t make reservations. Your first child is born
in a stable and laid in a manger. Do I need to go on?
Many times we see the “social media” version of Christmas. We see the manger scenes, and
focus on the Christ Child and not how it would have possibly been. Please understand that
everything you see on social media is not completely true. People post their best lives most of the
time. Don’t get caught up in these unrealistic expectations.
It’s OK to say no.
If the holiday party is what’s bringing you stress then don’t go. Sure, there will be those that ask
where you were, but you had other obligations even if it was spending time alone or with your
family. Don’t take more pressure on yourself than you need to.
If it’s a family gathering, then learn to lower your expectations. If you know there’s tension,
prepare for it. Do your best to avoid it. Don’t get involved. If you need to forgive someone then
do it so the tension can be reduced. I know that all sounds easy, but it can be difficult. But the
three most freeing words are “I forgive you“.
Simplify where you can.
If it’s financially a burden for Christmas, then have that conversation. Why put yourself in debt
for one day of presents that they’re done playing with by the end of the night? Kids are
understanding. Do the things that matter, not the material things.
Spiritually — Refocus on Christ
Change your focus. Have you ever noticed that scripture tells us over and over to become
childlike to enter the kingdom of God? This Christmas focus on that. How simple salvation‘s
plan was. Emmanuel, God with us. Jesus, the baby born to take away the sins of the world.
That’s what we need to focus on this year.
Don’t focus on all of the things that stress you out. Focus on Jesus. Let him remind you the
reason he came is you. Without those that needed a savior there would’ve been no need for
Bethlehem. He loves you. Focus on that.
Read a Christmas passage each day (Luke 1–2, Matthew 1–2). This will help you focus on what
happened in Bethlehem. Focus on the simplicity. God could have been extravagant, but his plan
was simple and accessible to all.
Take five minutes to pray each night with your family. Focus on being thankful for Jesus. You
may want to incorporate your Bible reading during that time. This helps us change our focus
from the stress to the peace that Jesus brings. I know it’s late in December, but for the rest of the
month, take five minutes every day to pray specifically remembering that he came.
Physically — Protect Your Energy
Schedule rest like an appointment.
It’s OK to say “sorry, I have an appointment during that time“. You don’t have to say my
appointment is time for me to rest and recover. We become physically exhausted because we
don’t schedule time to rest. Don’t overlook this small thing. Put it in your “Christmas calendar“.
Don’t overextend financially or emotionally.
I have said this already, but it is OK to say no, I cannot do that. If you know it’s going to
overextend you financially or emotionally then say no. Your kids may complain, but they would
much rather have you than all of the things you’re working so hard to give them.
Don’t overextend yourself. Instead spend time with the ones that recharge you emotionally.
There is nothing like the hug of my family that gives me renewed energy.
Be careful to eat wisely and sleep well.
Don’t allow the holiday rush to drain you physically. It’s OK to go to bed early when you can.
It’s OK to sleep in on a Saturday when you don’t have an appointment. Don’t forfeit your health
so that it can be a “better“ Christmas. If you burn out and your body shuts down, what kind of
Christmas would that be? Take care of yourself.
Four Christmas Challenges
You may choose one or do them all.
Worship Challenge:
Read Luke 2 out loud with family or friends.
Simplify Challenge:
Remove one unnecessary task, event, or expectation.
Stillness Challenge:
Spend one night this week quietly reflecting on Jesus’ birth.
Peace Challenge:
Pray Philippians 4:6–7 every morning for the rest of December.
Remember, Simeon said Christmas (God’s Salvation Plan) was prepared for us not the other way
around. So,Prepare for Christmas in a way that keeps you healthy. Don’t overextend. I know
that’s difficult in this season. You will come out better for it in the new year if you will just prepare for Christmas.
David McCool proudly presents his second published work, an insightful exploration of the people and events surrounding the birth of Jesus Christ. This book delves into the Christmas narrative, beginning with the divine plan and tracing the genealogy of Jesus, highlighting significant figures within His lineage. Each chapter features a devotion focused on the various titles attributed to Jesus in Isaiah 9:6, along with reflections on pivotal characters like the innkeeper, Herod, the Wise Men, and the shepherds. Over 31 days, journey through inspirational thoughts and profound reflections, gaining a renewed perspective on the greatest story ever told—the birth of Jesus. You’ll also find 13 bonus devotions, selected from David’s personal favorites, offering even more insights into the Christmas story. May this journey inspire and bless you as you reflect on the true meaning of Christmas.
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Rev. David McCool has been immersed in ministry his entire life. Born into a preacher’s home, he carries a lifelong passion for serving God’s people. In 2003, David, his wife Kris, and their three children founded Life Church of Roseville. Just three years later, they answered the call to pastor their home church—Apostolic Faith Tabernacle in Ferndale, Michigan.
While shepherding two growing congregations, David has remained deeply invested in Children’s Ministry for nearly two decades, serving in various leadership roles, including district director. He is also an educator, currently working as an Achievement Behavior Support Specialist for early elementary students.
In December 2024, David published his first book, Psalms: Devotions with David—a heartfelt devotional that blends Scripture, reflection, and real-life wisdom.
David treasures his greatest titles of all: husband to Kris, father to three incredible adult children, and “Poppi” to four amazing grandchildren.
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